Find the one they said…
I am sorry, I don’t really think it works that way. I may be wrong but I do think that when you go looking and the wrong person will become your “loved one” because you looking for that list you made in order to tick off a few standards. I mean he/she will meet like 4/20 and you like YES!! He/she is the one, I am so in love, we getting married and then 6 months down the line, you like I hate you, you are nothing like what you portrayed to be, you don’t put me first, you just doing life for you, you don’t know what you want, why couldn’t you just be honest, etc.
I think it when you stop looking for that “soul mate” and focus more on yourself, throw away the negativity and people who put you down. You will be more loved than you think, by what you do and how you carry yourself.
You may get lonely and want to settle but DON’T!! The one will come and when they do, it will be worth the wait. Worth all the nights you cried yourself to sleep, the romantic movies you make yourself watch and don’t get me started on the days you see a couple making out or even as simple as holding hands…
You will forget all about it, every last bit. When the “one” comes you will simply find peace, joy, happiness and most of all LOVE!!
My advise, don’t make a list. Be true to yourself, they will support you, always want the greatest for you and in all honesty make you a better person. Never settle for being with the wrong person because you are lonely, you will only be hurting yourself.
Patience is the key!!
God Bless xxxo