Author: lion20two

Are we really asking for it?

Girls girls girls? Holla at me for a second.

Is it really that hard to find a guy that doesn’t want to constantly get into bed with him. Like what happen to just cuddling or playing with your hair? My goodness rub my feet.

I can honestly say that me as a female I would want to be appreciated more by the male species. I have some really really good guy friends but then there are like other assholes that just want to get you into bed and that could even be your boyfriend.

But where do you draw the line? What honestly happen to respect and getting to know the person and not by how they are in bed!

Okay I’m done!

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Something…

Have you ever loved someone so much you take all the crap they give you just so you can be held by them again? To have that hug or kiss or that warm fuzzy feeling you get when you see them.

And I’m not talking about just a relationship with a boy or a girl. Do you have that feeling around family and friends who has the best interest for you but just have a really bad way or showing it?

Okay let me give you an example : anything they say about you is negative, they never say you should do this but I don’t like it when you do that, this isn’t gonna work this way, not that supportive when you do something right or just never really want to talk about things.

So what now what do we do? Do we run away from it, brush it under the rug? Do you just finish it? Call it quits? Do you stick it out and hope for the best?

To be honest I don’t know the answers, I struggle with the same things and I never really feel like I now what to do because being myself isn’t good enough for those people so now what?

Help??

Finding you…

Question…

Have you ever thought about who you are and your purpose on this earth?

Has that thought really ever crossed your mind? Have you made your mark and kept to you?

Quite often people tell me that they’ve never met someone like me. I don’t know how to respond to that – but I certainly LOVE HEARING IT! Never have I not wanted to be myself…

I’ve had difficult moments in life, but I have always been ME. Yes, I tended to my bad habits, and loved learning about myself in the process we call “life”.

I’ll always be truthful, real and stubborn. Being stubborn, sho I can’t stand it, but you can be assured that you’re getting the real deal. The REAL ME!

Be proud of who you are. Be YOU! Remember, you only get one shot! Do not miss your chance to blow…(You know the rest)

Like really?

You know that song – “count your blessings, name them one by one!”

It got me thinking as I lay in bed, so many people have gotten so use to God blessing them, that is has become an expectation. Not something God will do from time to time or when you need it but like if he doesn’t come through then he isn’t the God you know him to be or thought he was!

Is that really how you are going to think? How can you even get yourself to think that way. You don’t even work to archive something because you just like “oh no my God will provide!” STOP!!!! Someone says “Go get a job”, no my God will provide me with one, “Oh no I don’t need to work hard”, my God will increase my salary!

I just can’t deal, get it right people!!

“blessing

ˈblɛsɪŋ/

noun

1 God’s favour and protection.”may God continue to give us his blessing”

2 synonyms:

3 protection, favour “may God continue to give us his blessing”

4

◦ a prayer asking for divine favour and protection.”a priest gave a blessing as the ship was launched”

◦ grace said before or after a meal.

synonyms:

◦ benediction, dedication, consecration, invocation, commendation, prayer for someone, intercession; grace, thanksgiving, thanks; kiddush; archaicorison “they received a special blessing from a Catholic priest”

I feel people actually need to read the dictionary more or maybe the Bible!

Anyway that is my five cents…

Marriage

dream wedOkay guys hear me out on this one…

I am no expert on marriage nor have I ever been married but my gosh, marriage these days is just not like it used to be!

1st – People don’t work things out anymore, they give up not knowing it probably could have been sorted out. So they choose the easy way out, without knowing what could have been.

2nd – Divorce has become such a common thing, people are like aggg… We can get married and if it doesn’t work out, we can just get a divorce – like are you mental man??? Why put yourself through that? Why get engaged just rather say; “you know what, I love you but love just isn’t enough for us and we know things are not working, so let’s save each other the hurt!” This is so much better than falling for someone who isn’t in love with you or you might not be fully committed.

wall3rd – Why do we cheat??? Why man, you choose to be faithful before God and the people at your wedding and most importantly your partner, why do you now wanna bring some other vibe into your marriage because in all honesty, it’s just negative and going to mess up your marriage. Like if you not ready for marriage, DON’T DO IT!!

4th – We need to be able to be open and honest because keeping secrets in marriage is so dumb! Why? You choose to be with this person forever and why would you even think of lying? You going to get caught.

5th – Why are we choosing marriage as a safety option? To keep that person? Trust me, if they don’t want to be with you, the marriage will fail and you will probably be doing the above mentioned because you are comfortable and just settling!!! No man you stealing someone else’s happiness and life partner. STOP IT!!!

weddHonestly, I am sooo scared to get married because the examples being set these days are just disgusting! I don’t want to fear marriage, I don’t want to feel as if my marriage will one day be a flop, because OH HELL NO!! If it ain’t working tell me. If you cheated, tell me and leave. If you don’t see a future, it’s okay. If all you can do is lie – bye bye honey. If I am the safe option, I’m walking away!!!

We deserve a kind of marriage where we can’t wait to get home, love each other after an argument, cuddle up and be cute together. Not hold a grudge, surprise each other, work on us daily, fall in love with the simple things, laugh uncontrollably together and just flourish – I mean I don’t know what kind of marriage you want but damn, I will not choose a dead one…

Please excuse my vent, I just want us to look forward to a life with someone one day and to find a blessed and true kinda love ❤

ambrey

Dress – My mom wore 34 years ago

Photography – Carlo Daniels

Moments…

Life has moments! We are able to capture them in many different ways such as;

  • Photography
  • Written experience
  • Video tape
  • Music

But what I find so crazy is that when we are in the moment, we are never truly in the moment.

Let me give you some content here : a first date. Oooh some juice ha ha, focus Tiffany. You can see I’m already nervous.

So you get asked out on a date, pause. Do guys even know what girls do just to empress themselves? Then again we ladies don’t know what they are doing. We all Hush hush!

Anyway, so you get to the date, you sit down and your mind races. ” Oh my word do I look okay, like do I have lipstick on my teeth, wow my head is itchy, this dress is so tight I need to fart (okay maybe that is just me) but as we females are all thinking this, your date is like “she gave me a chance, she is sooo beautiful (heart eyes) I am so lucky, thank you Lord”.

Feel I was getting all weird there but what I actually meant by saying all of this. We tend to not enjoy the moment to it’s fullest. If we could just take note of how she was being admired by her date, she would have possibly had a better time.

Another example, that you will never forget moments that have made you smile. If it was a dumb joke, where to this day you still laugh about it! Some of you are laughing right now! Ha ha ha ha

Okay one more, I promise. So going to a concert or festival. Oh my word it annoys me so much when people take their phones out and record everything and forget to just make memories and enjoy the moment man. Yes it’s good to look back at those memories but if you had just been in the moment it would have been soo much better. I guess that’s just me!

Maybe I am talking to much but I really think that if we live our moments or experiences to the fullest, more smiles, laughter and love will be shared.

Forget the worry and stress, happiness is on the way…