Author: lion20two

Just stop!

When you date someone, that person now enters your world, your lifestyle, your day-to-day. Not saying it all happens at once but if you want that person in your space because you see a proper future with them, then you show them “you” to see if they can fit in with everything or at least work with you on this journey.

I don’t know how some people can be in a relationship but cut the one they “love”off or not really show them how much they mean to them, so they only really open up a piece of their world, which I think is super selfish!

If you don’t see that person growing with you, being a little silly from time to time, they don’t make you smile, you always stressed out or it just gets to heavy for you, rather just leave and move on.

You are stopping yourself from finding “true love” and you gonna end up hurting someone you love or even worse being hurt even more.

Just stop!!!!



Sometimes you got to go through some SHHHHH…


In life you have to go through a bit of crap LOL in order to learn or to actually like see what you like, want in life and what is just like that HELL NO moments!!!

So as per the pictures I have taken I will give you a few examples of what I have gone through and have learnt over the past 6 months.

So I noticed that people who are not really meant to be in your life will keep you there for their happiness. They will only call you when they need you or make time for you when they want to. Leave you just happy enough to keep you around like give you something they know will make you weak. Always talk about themselves and basically not even ask you how you are.

With that being said I will say I gave those people a lot of my time but after a while I just decided you know what, you are sucking the life out of me and I just don’t have time for that – BUT like I said if I didn’t go through it I wouldn’t have known.

I also realised that if you don’t actually apply yourself to where you want to be you in life either a Job, a dream or even just saving money for that debt you know you need to pay, will always hate or dislike people who are successful.

An easy example is a job like I said you been wanting it so badly and you know that you can get it but you just not applying yourself or job shadowing. You just believe you should have it. Don’t act like you haven’t done that ever in your life. I lift my hand and shoo I don’t know how many times I felt like that but looking back I am like I didn’t even try to make an effort so HOW ON EARTH did I expect to get that job.

Now flip, I push myself like a crazy person. I am going to be working and studying which is going to be so hard and I take my hat off to people who do it. Like this post is called “sometimes” you got to go through some SSSSHHHH you will realize like oh my gosh it was me in the end and I just know I don’t wanna be there again so you work harder.

Anyway I can go on all day with so many examples but hey let me call that a POST lol

Let’s learn from every lesson, big or small. Take as much out of it next time, apply it so that you don’t repeat yourself and end up being that person that wallows. MEH!


Photography  and Location – Mason the Barber

T-shirt – Dutch afro

Fanny pack – Vans

Watch – Casio

Rings – Models own (always wanted to say that)

Glasses – Third eyewear

Is love really that dead???


So it’s February and all of a sudden it becomes the month of “LOVE” or like my sister once told me “SINGLE AWARENESS” month.

But honestly I think that is a load of BULLSHHHHH… like really do we need a calendar to tell us when to show someone that we really love them or just to show them that we actually appreciate who they are to us???

I mean I am all for gifts and giving gifts but like really man “ONE DAY”

Why do we do it just to make someone feel special for one day – like I am not saying that we need to do this everyday buying flowers and chocolates and a teddy or for those that like shoes and hand bags, REALLY?


Come on, simply making them coffee after a long day or a foot rub (ladies) back rub (guys), do something you will probably hate but you know they will love, give them a hug when they least expect it, kiss them in public (like embarrass them – trust me they may hate you in the moment but will love you so much more for it)

Like I don’t know if I am being too much but gosh man – don’t get me wrong I am not calling people out or whatever I am basically saying my feelings on this day.

I just think it’s made out to be such a BIG day when everyday can and should be a BIG day.

Like it may not be a thing for you, maybe show someone how much they mean to you. Like the person that you love will bring out that side of you, once again YESSSSS every one is not the same… Bleh Bleh Bleh I mean come on shut up and just make the person know like “wow I am feeling sooooo loved today for no reason at all.”

Eg : one of my friends husbands is just not the kind of guy to show “LOVE” but when he does shooo she like wants to get married all over again and it’s simply the small things.

Anyway that is my two cents on “Valentines day”



“And all of a sudden you know… It’s time to start something new and trust in the magic of beginnings…”

This year I am going in with a completely different mind set. I have decided that this is the year of “TIFFANY”. I want to think of me first, do things I want to do, go places, do adventures, I mean just live for me a little.

Some of you might think that it is selfish but if you really knew me, you would know that I never do things for me. I may want things to be done for me but I will always put others before me or make them happy and then think of myself.

This year, don’t get me wrong, I won’t forget about my loved ones but I am going to focus more on me and my NEEDS not wants well maybe some one of them LOL

As Beyoncé says ” I got me, myself and I.”

Let’s do this girl…

Photos – Sleeping Panda Photography

The “ex” factor

Ladies, ladies, ladies…

So I asked the question a few days ago as to “why does the new girlfriend not like the ex?” And it got me thinking we all have gone through that stage where we just can’t stand her, yet all the guy we with is trying to do, is move on with us and leave her alone because to be honest if he truly wanted to be there her he would leave your sorry ass…

So I lay in bed and wonder what makes us females feel this way?

  • Is it that we feel treathend?
  • Is she causing trouble?
  • Do we think that she’s still in the picture?
  • Are we insecure?
  • Do they still speak?
  • Are they call you their name?
  • Have they left in good terms?
  • Was it a good relationship?
  • Are you jealous of what they had?
  • Maybe the ex ain’t really the ex?

So is it something to really do with the ex or do we need to be working internally?

Like really man like I said before we are all guilty of this including myself and to be honest only when we are truly over the person and allow them to move on will the ex or ex’s never matter cause honey boo thang our handsomely strong men are coming…

Just you wait and see 😉

Photography – Sleeping_panda

Jacket – China Town

T-shirt – Cotton on

Jeans – Cotton on

Socks and Shoes – H&M

Belt – Mothers cupboard

Glasses – Third eye wear

Call me what you want…

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So I was told the other day that I am vain/narcissistic if they had to just look at my Facebook and Instagram and not really know me or take the chance too…




having or showing an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one’s physical appearance.

And I understand where people are coming by calling me that but you cannot base a person on their Instagram or Facebook posts! It’s just pictures that are out there for the world to see take it how you would like too but to be honest, no-one truly takes the time to get to know that person and actually realize they are nothing like what you thought they could be.

People are so quick to judge and label you without knowing what you have been through or currently dealing with.
Sorry but my life is to busy to worry with what people have to think of me! I know who I am and okay with that…

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Basically Imma do me and if you don’t like it you can simply unfollow!

Boy bye xx



Because it happened…

I read this quote not to long ago “You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s an experience.”

Like how true is that? We always seem to think it isn’t! We have this screwed up mindset that if it doesn’t play out the way we want it to, it was the biggest mess up! However when we look back, it could possibly be the best experience or lesson we needed at the time.

Only you can change your life, no one can do it for you! You are the one that can make things great (or not!) It is dependent on your mood if you really think about it!

Walk away knowing that life throws you with the most unexpected things, you gotta choose to live in it or get over it…