In life you have to go through a bit of crap LOL in order to learn or to actually like see what you like, want in life and what is just like that HELL NO moments!!!
So as per the pictures I have taken I will give you a few examples of what I have gone through and have learnt over the past 6 months.
So I noticed that people who are not really meant to be in your life will keep you there for their happiness. They will only call you when they need you or make time for you when they want to. Leave you just happy enough to keep you around like give you something they know will make you weak. Always talk about themselves and basically not even ask you how you are.
With that being said I will say I gave those people a lot of my time but after a while I just decided you know what, you are sucking the life out of me and I just don’t have time for that – BUT like I said if I didn’t go through it I wouldn’t have known.
I also realised that if you don’t actually apply yourself to where you want to be you in life either a Job, a dream or even just saving money for that debt you know you need to pay, will always hate or dislike people who are successful.
An easy example is a job like I said you been wanting it so badly and you know that you can get it but you just not applying yourself or job shadowing. You just believe you should have it. Don’t act like you haven’t done that ever in your life. I lift my hand and shoo I don’t know how many times I felt like that but looking back I am like I didn’t even try to make an effort so HOW ON EARTH did I expect to get that job.
Now flip, I push myself like a crazy person. I am going to be working and studying which is going to be so hard and I take my hat off to people who do it. Like this post is called “sometimes” you got to go through some SSSSHHHH you will realize like oh my gosh it was me in the end and I just know I don’t wanna be there again so you work harder.
Anyway I can go on all day with so many examples but hey let me call that a POST lol
Let’s learn from every lesson, big or small. Take as much out of it next time, apply it so that you don’t repeat yourself and end up being that person that wallows. MEH!
Photography and Location – Mason the Barber
T-shirt – Dutch afro
Fanny pack – Vans
Watch – Casio
Rings – Models own (always wanted to say that)
Glasses – Third eyewear