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Is love really that dead???

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So it’s February and all of a sudden it becomes the month of “LOVE” or like my sister once told me “SINGLE AWARENESS” month.

But honestly I think that is a load of BULLSHHHHH… like really do we need a calendar to tell us when to show someone that we really love them or just to show them that we actually appreciate who they are to us???

I mean I am all for gifts and giving gifts but like really man “ONE DAY”

Why do we do it just to make someone feel special for one day – like I am not saying that we need to do this everyday buying flowers and chocolates and a teddy or for those that like shoes and hand bags, REALLY?

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Come on, simply making them coffee after a long day or a foot rub (ladies) back rub (guys), do something you will probably hate but you know they will love, give them a hug when they least expect it, kiss them in public (like embarrass them – trust me they may hate you in the moment but will love you so much more for it)

Like I don’t know if I am being too much but gosh man – don’t get me wrong I am not calling people out or whatever I am basically saying my feelings on this day.

I just think it’s made out to be such a BIG day when everyday can and should be a BIG day.

Like it may not be a thing for you, maybe show someone how much they mean to you. Like the person that you love will bring out that side of you, once again YESSSSS every one is not the same… Bleh Bleh Bleh I mean come on shut up and just make the person know like “wow I am feeling sooooo loved today for no reason at all.”

Eg : one of my friends husbands is just not the kind of guy to show “LOVE” but when he does shooo she like wants to get married all over again and it’s simply the small things.

Anyway that is my two cents on “Valentines day”

JUST SHOW LOVE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!

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beginnings…

“And all of a sudden you know… It’s time to start something new and trust in the magic of beginnings…”

This year I am going in with a completely different mind set. I have decided that this is the year of “TIFFANY”. I want to think of me first, do things I want to do, go places, do adventures, I mean just live for me a little.

Some of you might think that it is selfish but if you really knew me, you would know that I never do things for me. I may want things to be done for me but I will always put others before me or make them happy and then think of myself.

This year, don’t get me wrong, I won’t forget about my loved ones but I am going to focus more on me and my NEEDS not wants well maybe some one of them LOL

As Beyoncé says ” I got me, myself and I.”

Let’s do this girl…

Photos – Sleeping Panda Photography

The “ex” factor

Ladies, ladies, ladies…

So I asked the question a few days ago as to “why does the new girlfriend not like the ex?” And it got me thinking we all have gone through that stage where we just can’t stand her, yet all the guy we with is trying to do, is move on with us and leave her alone because to be honest if he truly wanted to be there her he would leave your sorry ass…


So I lay in bed and wonder what makes us females feel this way?

  • Is it that we feel treathend?
  • Is she causing trouble?
  • Do we think that she’s still in the picture?
  • Are we insecure?
  • Do they still speak?
  • Are they call you their name?
  • Have they left in good terms?
  • Was it a good relationship?
  • Are you jealous of what they had?
  • Maybe the ex ain’t really the ex?

So is it something to really do with the ex or do we need to be working internally?

Like really man like I said before we are all guilty of this including myself and to be honest only when we are truly over the person and allow them to move on will the ex or ex’s never matter cause honey boo thang our handsomely strong men are coming…

Just you wait and see 😉

Photography – Sleeping_panda

Jacket – China Town

T-shirt – Cotton on

Jeans – Cotton on

Socks and Shoes – H&M

Belt – Mothers cupboard

Glasses – Third eye wear

Call me what you want…

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So I was told the other day that I am vain/narcissistic if they had to just look at my Facebook and Instagram and not really know me or take the chance too…

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“narcissistic”

adjective

having or showing an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one’s physical appearance.

And I understand where people are coming by calling me that but you cannot base a person on their Instagram or Facebook posts! It’s just pictures that are out there for the world to see take it how you would like too but to be honest, no-one truly takes the time to get to know that person and actually realize they are nothing like what you thought they could be.

People are so quick to judge and label you without knowing what you have been through or currently dealing with.
Sorry but my life is to busy to worry with what people have to think of me! I know who I am and okay with that…

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Basically Imma do me and if you don’t like it you can simply unfollow!

Boy bye xx

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Because it happened…

I read this quote not to long ago “You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s an experience.”

Like how true is that? We always seem to think it isn’t! We have this screwed up mindset that if it doesn’t play out the way we want it to, it was the biggest mess up! However when we look back, it could possibly be the best experience or lesson we needed at the time.

Only you can change your life, no one can do it for you! You are the one that can make things great (or not!) It is dependent on your mood if you really think about it! 

Walk away knowing that life throws you with the most unexpected things, you gotta choose to live in it or get over it…

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For years I have worried what would people like or say and I am someone who forgives and thinks aggg man let’s just be nice… 

And yes I do get hurt from time to time, I myself do the hurting but my gosh and I am done with that if you honestly have no way of bringing positivity to my life, honey pie you are going to be blocked and deleted! I don’t see the need in having your negativity in my life?! I have always been someone to help others and put them first, just to get stomped on and left to deal with stuff on my own, now and then I get help along the way but never do I treat you the way you treat me, so imma do me…

I say it again blocked and deleted!!

Bye!!!

Single life…

Sometimes I wonder why I am still single, why I haven’t found the “one”? Yet everyone I know has or is dating, happily married, all in love or having babies.

I think maybe I am just not ready for true love, I have not healed from past hurt or maybe they just can’t handle me!!

You see I have been single for a while, saw a few guys for a little bit but I can honestly say single life is crazy and hectic! You constantly ask yourself questions, feel like you wanna cuddle but can’t, really really really REALLY feel like a kiss but don’t wanna kiss anyway cos you don’t want complications, not sure if you should flirt with someone that messages you, never really wanna go out because who would you meet and what if they hurt you or you sit in bed crying cos you feel lonely!

Don’t get me wrong, I have my ups with being single, not having to worry who you go out with, getting up in the morning and not having to discuss what you wanna do for the day, been able to eat whatever you want because dating makes you wanna look good next to your partner, phone bill not that high on cute calls lol or having to stress that today you just gonna be meh and not have to put on a smile for the next person.

But most of all being single has made me love me more, doing things for me when I need that boast, I am more confident now than I was! Not 100% confident but much more, I have learnt that things may not always go the way you plan but you learn along the way and I am loving it… 

I mean I’d enjoy being loved and be called someone’s girlfriend again but Imma reap the benefits of being single for now…

So to the next one, when I fall I hope you ready to catch me…