struggle is real…


You ever have a feeling that you stuck in something you feel you cannot get out of yet you know you shouldn’t be in it???

It could be a friendship, work place, hotel room or even a family gathering.

I have come to learn that you are the only person that can change that exact situation, no-one else can do it for you. You can be encouraged to move on and turn away, yet you hold the power to actually follow through with the advise given.

Ask yourself these questions :

  • Look at what is bad or not right about the situation
  • Find out what is keeping you there and why?
  • Would it be worth it in the long run?
  • What have people been saying to you, should I listen or just push it a side
  • Should I stay or should I go?
  • In which way will I benefit
  • Can I solve it or will it just get worse if I try?
  • Am I truly happy?

If most of the questions are answered in a negative way GET OUT, as you will be hurting yourself more than anything. To be honest we all deserve to be happy and never have to find ourselves in a situation where we are not ourselves or find that we are just trying to survive or get through the day.

Save yourself from the drama, you deserve better!!!!


Photography – Carlo Daniels


iQ cruises cos we skit yachts

Where do I begin โค when you realize that you actually have not experienced Cape Town and you live here all your life.  So I decided to go on a sunset cruise with 5 of my friends to live that Lavish life even if its just for one night.  We made a pack to do more tourist adventures in Cape Town –  a tourist in your own town ๐Ÿ™‚


It started at 6:45pm when we had to board the yacht and get the run down of our journey ahead as well as the safety tips. Of course we had to be there about 25 minutes earlier to pay for our booking and get our tickets. We were then advised that there are rails on each side of the yacht – please use when walking, there are sitting all around the yacht as well as inside, you can sit on the mats however you will get splashed from time to time, there will be refreshments on sale and blankets if it gets to windy.

At 7pm we left on our journey;  got some refreshments and we decided to sit outside to see the amazing view.  Well, not even 5 minutes into the yacht ride we got splashed with water like no tomorrow. So we decided until the water settles we would go inside before we were drenched in sea water. When we got inside we chilled and got dry while waiting for the water to calm down enough to go back out.





After the water calmed down, I was way to eager to get out and sit on the mat as the other guests on the yacht were not that interested.  Although I get really bad motion sickness which means I get car sick and sea sick really quickly but this trip was not that bad at all.  I was running up and down, all over the boat jumping and being weird as if the motion sickness did not exist whatsoever I am so glad no-one got a video of me throwing up!!

We then enjoyed the trip to Sea Point after turning around.  We saw an amazing sunset and as you know Cape Town always goes the extra mile with its beautiful sunsets. We took loads of pics of course but my phone decided to die (face palm) Likely my friends stepped in and we got some amazing shots of the yacht trip.

Once the yacht had turned and the sun started to set, it became a little chilly.  I didn’t feel it that much but I would advise you to take a jacket along so that you don’t get sick or get too chilly however if you do forget there are blankets available.

It is definitely something to do as a girls night out, date night or just a couple of friends out to have a good time! I think being nervous was just a given and I was even more anxious to throw up but hey I did it with out feeling nauseous what so ever, like my friend has claimed this years motto to be “don’t miss your turn” that’s exactly what I think we need to do!! Don’t say no if you haven’t tried something or you to scared to do it, do it you may find that you love every second of it and then you live with no regrets!!


This cruise was so worth it and I will definitely be back again.

Thank you iQ Cruise for the experience of a lifetime ๐Ÿ™‚

what’s your coffee???

My love for coffee is a never-ending story…


I have got my favourite stores that I go to but I am not scared to try something new. The difference is that when you find the one โค it’s really hard to change your mind or to be like are yeah let’s try something elseโ€ฆ I feel like I will be cheating on my favourite cup if I go somewhere else you know??? I am not sure if you feel the same but maybe about something different, like favourite restaurant, drink, shoes, outfit or carโ€ฆ It is so hard to have a little change. Although change is good, it is hard to actually allow it to happen.

I have 3 favourites store and my favorite drink at that store :

Deluxe Coffee works for a Cortado

Rosetta Roastery for a Flat white

Seattle Coffee for a Seattle Freeze


What’s your favourite place to have coffee maybe I will pop in and have a taste…

Photographer – Gidion Felix

misfit – my first tattoo

On the 8th April this year, I decided to take the plunge and got a tattooโ€ฆ After much deliberation on what to get, how it should look, where it can be placed, the size and of course, if it’s a picture or script. I had finally found EXACTLY what I wanted. This had not taking a few months but a few years!!!

I had finally decided on the word MISFIT and a paw print as I am obsessed with lions of cause.

What the word MISFIT means to me and why I chose it : Do you possibly have a lifetime for me to truly show you what this word could describe and shape who I truly I am?

Probably not so I will try my best to explain how much I love being a MISFIT lol.

All my life I have found myself NOT fitting in with anyone, yes I had my group of friends, yet I always stood out or had some weird way of being noticed. I have had my fair share of trying to fit in, yet found myself losing who I truly I am and I didn’t like that. I don’t think that I fit in with my family, sometimes my friends, my work place or even just when I walk in a crowd. YET that is me, a misfit never wanting to be like everyone else, being who I was truly put on this earth to be. Being able to spot me a mile away cos I’m different in a good way.

With that being said I got the word MISFIT and a paw print on my rib cage as it is the worst place to get a tattoo! As the word has so much meaning and I wanted to show it off. So when you see it you will ask and I get to express a side of myself to you that you may not know as if yet.

What’s funny is that people who know me basically tell me when they see it “YEAH that explains you to the T” I just laugh as I know exactly what they mean.

I think one thing every has asked me is, “oh my word you have a tattoo and then flip was it not sore???” To be honest it is a weird feeling but I think I handled it really well. The closer the lines got to my chest the more pain I felt. The final line I honestly felt like the tattoo artist was about to kill me boobs but it went by so quickly I just bit down and took the pain.

It did take a bit of convincing for my tattoo artist to do my ribs as my first tattoo. They advised most people die half way through as it is one of the worst places to get a tattoo, so I was very proud of myself for going though with it.


That is my story of my first tattoo, can’t wait to tell you the next โค

Just something small

So I started taking photos in the lift just for fun and to be silly, however as the days went by I realized that everyday I take a photo my emotion was always cheerful because I either was about to get food, or was my Friday or the shift had ended…

I had then started noticing that if that lift doesn’t open then I would literally be like “Awwww no man” no selfie today and my mood would be off!! For some people it may be a little bit like “oh come on Tiff really again, why must you take a picture now, it’s like you live there, can you just chill with the pictures now” when in actual fact for me it’s a really confidence boast and a silly small thing like a picture in a lift that changes my mood or makes me feel like being just a tad crazy at times, not that I need a lift for that ha ha. So if you find something silly or do something weird not everyone will approve it by hey do it for you, no1 needs to approve it!!!

Here’s to more lift shots and crazy moments that make you joyful at that very moment!!!


who are you to judge


Lately it has become acceptable for people to judge one another based on many different things:

“Look what she’s wearing, How did she get to date him, His totally gross, Do you know what she did last summer, did you hear where he lives, they hang out with the wrong people, oh my word did you see she had a drink in her hand, Do you really work there? Did he just say that?”

I have my moments when I have my comments I won’t lie, I am totally guilty of this. However once you get to know someone they are totally the opposite of what you thought they actually were. You see we can judge someone all we want but do we truly want someone to have this made up idea of what they think you could be but in fact it’s nothing close to who you really are.

We all sit on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter and judge each other. Doing it in silent doesn’t make you any better than saying something in public.

I recently heard someone say they won’t like a picture because the girl in it was too beautiful???? REALLY??? We can’t tell people they beautiful or handsome anymore?? I think that is so weird yet we can easily tell someone “No, you should so not wear that it make you look fat” like is that really okay?? and when we do tell someone they look nice do we mean it????

People will judge you by : looks, what you wear, who you friends with, what you drive, what you drink, what you say, who you date, where you live, where you work, by your family and most of all by your past.

We have to realize it will probably never change yet it can all start with one. It may take sometime but if you willing to try, it might just make a difference.


doing it for you


You know when you take photos in the wind, your hair always has a mind of it’s ownโ€ฆ but that is not what this post is about. I have learnt so much about myself since I have had to do a lot on my own and not have to check up with someone if it’s okay to do so.

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I believe that everyone has a moment in life where they have to put themselves first, fight for what you believe in or simply just be you. Some people won’t like it what so ever but you are not living for other people or to please them. There will always be comments, judgement and negativity but it’s how you deal with it. That is when you truly find you…


Set goals for yourself, short-term and long-term; get a flat, buy a car, find a man/women, have kids, be successful, do a shoot with a famous person, yes you may not get to them as soon as you may hope but never push them a side until it has been met. Make a list of silly things to do, e.g; take a random selfie with your crush, do the trust test in a shopping mall, try something new (clothing or food) have your face painted as your favourite character, basically do things to make you smile.

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The reason I am posting this is we only get one life and we need to live it fully. We may regret not ever going for things we have always wanted to do. Do it for you not to please other because then we are not living for ourselves but to please them (whoever them may be) It’s your life so live it!!!


Dungaree – Mr price

Top – Cotton on

Sandals – Mr Price

Shades – Raybans

Watch – Casio