Call me what you want…

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So I was told the other day that I am vain/narcissistic if they had to just look at my Facebook and Instagram and not really know me or take the chance too…




having or showing an excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one’s physical appearance.

And I understand where people are coming by calling me that but you cannot base a person on their Instagram or Facebook posts! It’s just pictures that are out there for the world to see take it how you would like too but to be honest, no-one truly takes the time to get to know that person and actually realize they are nothing like what you thought they could be.

People are so quick to judge and label you without knowing what you have been through or currently dealing with.
Sorry but my life is to busy to worry with what people have to think of me! I know who I am and okay with that…

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Basically Imma do me and if you don’t like it you can simply unfollow!

Boy bye xx




Blocked and deleted

For years I have worried what would people like or say and I am someone who forgives and thinks aggg man let’s just be nice…

And yes I do get hurt from time to time, I myself do the hurting but my gosh and I am done with that if you honestly have no way of bringing positivity to my life, honey pie you are going to be blocked and deleted! I don’t see the need in having your negativity in my life?! I have always been someone to help others and put them first, just to get stomped on and left to deal with stuff on my own, now and then I get help along the way but never do I treat you the way you treat me, so imma do me…

I say it again blocked and deleted!!


Je suis amiée

So I decided to get another tattoo but never really want to put anything on my body that is just for fun, however needs to have a great amount of meaning to me as it will be there for life!!

Let’s get a little bit deep just for a moment. My reason for the tattoo I had gotten on my Thigh is due to the fact that I don’t feel I am worthly of LOVE most times of my life, I have been in long term relationships/friendships and after a few years it ends and I just feel like I won’t ever have that REAL LOVE. Although I feel like I actually people LOVE fully. At times I know I don’t I will admit but yeah we all know when he/she just isn’t the one. My tattoo is in FRENCH – JE SUIS AIMÉE which means I AM LOVED. I choose french as I do feel it can be so romantic and it is called the language of LOVE heeeyyyyyyy lol.

Since I have had the tattoo I can honestly say looking st it daily makes me constantly feel that someone out there LOVES me for me, whether I know the person of not. I know someone does or at least I hope.


Thank you to the amazing team at Sleight of hand for the crazy experience and laughter throughout my sit down, I love my tattoo so much ❤ I will see you again soon 🙂

P.S if you can see I got a small tattoo on my wrist.  I had gotten this with the beautiful lady in my picture above which symbolizes our relationship together which has not ended and if yet to unfold, We got matching tattoos 🙂 love her to bits

misfit – my first tattoo

On the 8th April this year, I decided to take the plunge and got a tattoo… After much deliberation on what to get, how it should look, where it can be placed, the size and of course, if it’s a picture or script. I had finally found EXACTLY what I wanted. This had not taking a few months but a few years!!!

I had finally decided on the word MISFIT and a paw print as I am obsessed with lions of cause.

What the word MISFIT means to me and why I chose it : Do you possibly have a lifetime for me to truly show you what this word could describe and shape who I truly I am?

Probably not so I will try my best to explain how much I love being a MISFIT lol.

All my life I have found myself NOT fitting in with anyone, yes I had my group of friends, yet I always stood out or had some weird way of being noticed. I have had my fair share of trying to fit in, yet found myself losing who I truly I am and I didn’t like that. I don’t think that I fit in with my family, sometimes my friends, my work place or even just when I walk in a crowd. YET that is me, a misfit never wanting to be like everyone else, being who I was truly put on this earth to be. Being able to spot me a mile away cos I’m different in a good way.

With that being said I got the word MISFIT and a paw print on my rib cage as it is the worst place to get a tattoo! As the word has so much meaning and I wanted to show it off. So when you see it you will ask and I get to express a side of myself to you that you may not know as if yet.

What’s funny is that people who know me basically tell me when they see it “YEAH that explains you to the T” I just laugh as I know exactly what they mean.

I think one thing every has asked me is, “oh my word you have a tattoo and then flip was it not sore???” To be honest it is a weird feeling but I think I handled it really well. The closer the lines got to my chest the more pain I felt. The final line I honestly felt like the tattoo artist was about to kill me boobs but it went by so quickly I just bit down and took the pain.

It did take a bit of convincing for my tattoo artist to do my ribs as my first tattoo. They advised most people die half way through as it is one of the worst places to get a tattoo, so I was very proud of myself for going though with it.


That is my story of my first tattoo, can’t wait to tell you the next ❤


Have you questioned yourself about getting a tattoo, what you would get, where it should be, what would it say, should I really get one, will I regret it? I have been asking myself these questions for a couple of years now. Many of my friends have tattoos and I think it’s so awesome but some I really don’t understand, yes it’s not for me to understand and don’t get me wrong I respect that, I just really don’t know what I would really get and not regret.

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These are some things that I have learnt – my hard thinking moments “to be Inked or not to be Inked”

The history of tattoo began over 5000 years ago and is as diverse as the people who wear them. Tattoos are created by inserting colored materials beneath the skin’s surface. The first tattoos probably were created by accident. Someone had a small wound, and rubbed it with a hand that was dirty with soot and ashes from the fire. Once the wound had healed, they saw that a mark stayed permanently. Despite the social sciences’ growing fascination with tattooing, and the immense popularity of tattoos themselves, the practice has not left much of a historical record.

If you’re surrounded by friends or family members who have tattoos, you are more likely to think getting tattoos are no big deal. But researchers also found that the more tattoos a person had the more they felt on the receiving end of stigmatization. And the more disapproval a tattooed person feels, the more likely they are to have them removed. When someone gets a tattoo, they feel the need to inspire it with meaning, and can become quite anxiety over their tattoo narratives if they feel to little. When people get a tattoo simply for the sake of wanting one, they are more likely to regret it later. Not everyone needs a reason to get a tattoo, but behavioral research shows us that in general, people expect there to be a meaning or purpose for it—and that’s a meaning you can expect to be asked about by anyone. Just a few things to keep in mind before you get a tattoo or decided to apply ink to your body.

I do feel that a tattoo can be anything you want it to be but don’t get something you might regret later, you can always cover a tattoo up though. I really think that a tattoo is a lifetime commitment because it is on your body for the rest of your life, unless you remove it. I have put things I want as tattoo on a sticky note or book I am always using and if I get sick of looking at it I pull it out, since I have done this, only 2 have lasted and maybe those would be the ones I will get. The reason why I don’t have a tattoo yet he he, my parents will totally kick me out the house. They really don’t like it at all. I understand where they are coming from at times but I would also like to make decisions for myself, I had gotten my ears pieced and they didn’t like it but seemed to get over it. I however respect them and will wait until I am married and out of the house before I to get a tattoo.

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1. If you’re thinking about getting a tattoo, there is one very important thing you have to keep in mind — getting it done safely.
2. Think of a design you want to get.
3. Make a rough sketch of your design.
4. Find the location on your body that you want to put it
5. Touch up your design
6. Find an artist you trust.
7. Pick a few and check them out.
8. If the studio looks unclean, if anything looks out of the ordinary, or if you feel in any way uncomfortable, find a better place to get your tattoo.
9. Have a bit of knowledge of the overview.
10. Choose the artist whose work you like best and tell him or her you want a tattoo.
11. Negotiate your price.
12. Pay attention to the location where you will be tattooed.
13. When you get there, go over the new and improved picture, and make sure it’s OK.
14. Relax.
15. Take a final look when it’s finished.
16. Take care of your tattoo as instructed.
17. Even after it’s fully healed, a tattoo is more susceptible to the sun’s rays, so it’s a good idea to always keep it protected from direct sunlight.
What tattoos I would get and what they mean to me?
– I really want to have a cross tattooed on my hand because it something I always use and when I see it, it will remind me that God is always there and that I am never alone.
– A lion, I have wanted one for 2 years now but really don’t know where on my body?? Maybe my ribs or shoulder-blade, who knows if I will really get it.
– 22 in Roman Numerals on my collar-bone or shoulder. It means light in the Bible and I want to be the light to everyone around me.
– An anchor on my wedding finger when I get married to my alien, can’t wait for that day.
–  A heart out line on my wrist or behind my ear.
To conclude, I think that tattoo’s are an awesome idea and I can’t wait to walk into a tattoo parlour one day and get one myself. Basically getting a tattoo or choosing not to all comes down to personal preference. I’d love to hear what your views are about tattoo’s. If you were to get a tattoo what would you get??
God bless xxxo